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The Uncomfortable Truth about Easy Russian Women

Easy Russian Women

I know what you are looking for. You’ve googled to find out whether Russian girls are really sluts. You’ve probably read some bullshit reports by some douchebag who claims Russian women are super easy and super slutty. That made you all horny and now you want to know whether that is true. I will tell you the truth about how easy Russian women are. But you might not like the answer…


The answer you would like to hear is this one:

“Ohmygod Russian women are soo easy, when I went there I got laid 5 times in 3 days and all the girls looked like supermodels and now they keep texting me and I’m going to return as soon as I can and…”

Sorry mate. That’s not how it works.

Russian women are not easy at all.

Quite the opposite in fact.

I consider Eastern European women some of the hardest women around (if we leave out Muslim countries for obvious reasons). Don't think you’ll come to Russia and get laid left and right. The women are much shrewder and much more capable and know exactly what they want.

You have to understand that Russian women don’t have the same modus operandi like Western women. There’s a significant cultural difference and I’m going to explain you why this is a false rumor.

Russian women want commitment

First, we need to define what we mean by “easy”.

If we’re talking about the generally accepted definition, meaning how quickly and without great financial investment you can sleep with them…

…then Russian women are the opposite of easy.

Russian women always want some form of commitment.

Yea there are exceptions to that. One-night-stands happen like in every other modern society.

But in general, the relationship scene is more conservative because you need to commit.

There are two options.

Either the girl is a gold digger or an outright prostitute. You will have to commit with your wallet. Straight cash or gifts. To your credit card it won’t matter but at the end of the day she wants you to pay before she gives up the pussy.

There’s a significant number of women who operate like this but they’re not the majority. Generally, the hotter a girl is the more options and incentive she has to ask for financial commitment from a man. Russian women are ruthless so these girls won’t bat an eye, trying to extract as much financial resources from as many men as possible.

The other option is time commitment.

There are plenty of women who don’t ask for expensive shit or anything at all in fact. But they want a relationship. They want your attention. They want your TIME.

That means going on plenty of dates. If you’re used to getting laid on the second or maximum third date then I have bad news for you my friend. That can happen in Russia but I would say it’s not the rule.

Maybe 30% of the girls I dated and eventually slept with, I did so on the third date or earlier. It can take up to 8 dates and I’m not kidding. The women screen hard. It’s not easy to get around this, especially if you want to date a woman that’s not of average looks.

So it all boils down to having to invest either your time or your money. This isn’t a hard rule and there are plenty of exceptions to it. Russia is not for impatient men.

Her idea of a good third date

Russian women date around but don't sleep around

Maybe you’ve already spent time in Russia or went on dates with Russian women. There’s a good chance you’re now thinking something like this:

“Yea Ivan that’s maybe true but I know these girls who are constantly getting hit up by guys to go put with them. And you want to tell me they are not banging any of them?”

Again, we need some clarification here.

First, you should always assume that a girl has someone somewhere on speed dial. Even if it’s not true, assume it. Cause she could get someone at the snap of a finger.

Second, yes, they are getting hit up constantly. And they probably are going out with lots of guys. But they aren’t fucking lots of guys. That’s not how Russian women roll.

Russian women are selective. And Russian women are CUNNING. They aren’t going to fuck some guy only because he’s funny or because they liked his travel stories. Exceptions exist but the overwhelming majority does not.

They are dating around to find the “best deal”. Which guys pursues them the hardest? Which guy do they like the most? Who’s “worthy”? Casual sex in Russia still is not as widespread as in the West. Neither are casual relationships.

Russia has, by and large, still a relationship-focused culture. Marry early, don’t fuck tons of guys, pop out a few children and don’t work hard or don’t work at all. That’s how a lot of women and men still think. That’s also why girls in Russia rather jump from relationship to relationship instead of from one casual dick to the next.

Don’t let them lead you astray with the amount of attention they are getting. Only one or two men usually have true access to a Russian women, all the others are only kept around as backups.

You will be taken for a ride if you're an easy target

This one is important if you’re a foreigner who’s coming to Russia for a bit.

I got more bad news for you.

If you’re a dork and rich and don't know how to handle women then you’ll be in trouble.

You’ll get plenty of attention but no action. But you’ll end up paying and paying a lot. Again, Russian women are ruthless. They won’t hesitate to dangle the carrot in front of you to extract drinks or dinners or gifts or whatever from you. And at the end you get nothing. Don’t underestimate them. Russian women know how to weaponize their femininity. If you don’t believe me then google how other guys got scammed in Russia. That will tell you all you need.

ugly guy with girl

What could happen only that the girl will be hotter

They will frustrate you when you want to take them home

Last point for today.

Even if you’re not a dork and know your way around women, you might get frustrated by how slow things move or how fickle Russian women can be.

I can’t even recall how many times one of the following has happened to me:

  • They don't want to kiss you on the first date

When I first arrived in Russia, I used to think this is important. Stand your ground I thought. Make your intentions clear.


Subtlety is king in Russia. There are other means and ways to communicate your interest. Nowadays, I rarely even bother to go for the kiss on the first date. In Russia it’s totally normal to not kiss on the first date. I’d say about half of the girls don’t do it.

  • They come to your place but don't fuck you

This isn’t only restricted to Russia but that has happened to me a few times as well.

Yes, if you invite a girl over then she should know what’s up. And she does. But that doesn’t mean that you’re GUARANTEED action.

Sometimes they’re just hell bent on not having sex with you and there’s no way how you’ll change their mind. Especially if you haven’t seen her a lot of times and she’s quick to come home with you,that might happen. Obviously I’m not talking about going home with you after the club but regular dates. Don’t push it too quickly but feel the situation out first.

  • They grab your dick in the club but don't fuck you

This one is BIG with Russian women (Pun intended).

When they start drinking, they become really horny. And when they’re horny, all hell breaks loose. That’s probably how this rumor started in the first place. Some guy got his dick massaged on the dancefloor by a Russian girl and all of a sudden all Russian women were easy.

Yes, there’s a good chance that might happen if you get drunk and go to the right nightlife places. Still, even that doesn’t guarantee action yet. Easy come easy go.

  • They don't want to leave the cab after coming home with you

Maybe you’re past the basic playboy level and converted her dick grab into a cab ride home. You better make sure she is actually aware and down to do the dirty deed because she might change her mind on the way home. I’ve had multiple instances where girls would just not get out of the cab. Better double-check that to save yourself a pair of blue balls.

  • They keep staring at you but once you approach they give you the cold shoulder

This could happen if you’re too indecisive. You look over once. You look over a second time. She’s still staring at you. Finally, after a few minutes you decide to go over. She turns around and isn’t having any of it. Wasn’t she just eye-fucking you second before? What happened?

You ​​took no action. One glance is good enough. Russian women can be quite straightforward when they want to meet you. They might even start talking to you but they’ll definitely give you obvious enough eye-fucking. If she gives you the cold shoulder afterwards, you waited too long. Lesson learned.

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